Great friends. like Lou, always bring a smile.
Day 12 of 100 Happy Days
Our transition to life after the military has been pretty smooth…in fact I think we have landed on our feet given that my departure was fairly quick due to a medical release after the heart surgery.
We are well settled and enjoying life, but….
One thing we have not been able to do is crack the social code on the outside. Though I have friends here in Edmonton and area, it has been ten years since I served here and the friendships, though still intact, are not as tight as when I was with the Regiment and the Brigade. A decade creates a lot of new opportunities, a lot of new demands, a lot of new experiences.
In my military career, each new posting unearthed a new series of friends…new relationships were started or old ones rekindled. There were meet and greets, and bbqs and Happy Hours and Mess Functions to meet new people or to be introduced to new people.
That is not so much the case in my new operating environment. Sure, people are friendly enough, but the dinner parties, the spontaneous kitchen parties, the afternoon beer sessions, haven’t materialized yet. Maybe they will over time, but there not here as of yet.
So when a great friend says they are popping into town from Ottawa for a night, and makes time to come for dinner, it is a special occasion. Even if it is not the knock’em down, drag’em out kind of night because we are older and there is a long drive to the airport hotel before a morning flight, it is still great to chat, to laugh,to hug.
Good friends make for good times; great friends make for great times.
Here in Alberta, the doors are always open.
Later,
ASF
January 15, 2016
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1 responses to “Day 12 of 100 Happy Days -Old friends who pop in”
Susan Petrick
January 16th, 2016 at 12:28
My parents were RCAMC–medical corps–for 30 years. Their closest friends throughout their life were fellow RCAMC people. My father had a very successful career following his military service. Though he met many people and made some great friendships, none replaced those early relationships. The military is a family. They promote relationships wherever you are posted through those mess dinners and so forth. I know when we had a new posting, we encountered old friends from previous postings. Our daughter, a civilian employee of the military, loves the “family” aspect of the military. It cannot be replaced by any civilian employer.